A system dynamic equilibrium is when the sum of inflows is equal to the sum of outflows. Think about the bathtub — if the rate at which water enters is the same as the rate of water leaving the stock of water in the bathtub will remain (more or less) the same. If the amount of calories you consume equals the amount of calories you burn, your total energy (weight) stays (more or less) the same. If the daily rituals I perform (inflows) yields the desired amount of contentment (outflows), then it makes perfect sense to maintain the rituals. If the amount of energy I put into a relationship converts to the desired relationship strength, then the relationship system achieved a dynamic equilibrium. Thinking this way, I’ve decided to maintain my daily and weekend rituals because I derive the desired amount of contentment and peace from them. In terms of the system that is how I start my day, I’ve achieved a dynamic equilibrium of sorts in that way. Yesterday I offered a number of reflective questions — but I think I can simplify this to a common process improvement method:What do you want to stop? (decreasing outflow)What do you want to start? (increasing inflow)What do you want to continue? (dynamic equilibrium)

Yesterday I wrote about stocks. And stocks are easy for humans to think about. What about flows? Flows are the movements of a thing in and out. Births and Deaths, water entering and draining, calories consumed and burned. While a stock of a thing may be easier for humans to understand, flows are also deceptively easy… Adding a thing is easy. Eating more, complicating more, demanding more, adding more, playing more — it’s easy to understand “more.” More is an inflow. Example: If I earn more money my stock of money will rise. However, what baffles me is how hard it is to understand that more can be gotten from less.If I don’t increase the amount of calories I consume but do not exercise, I will gain weight. In that example, I am limiting an outflow. If I earn the same amount of money but spend less money then my stock of money will increase. In these examples, my stocks of things increase because my outflow is restricted. Yesterday I wrote about focus I said that a stock of focus may be a function of the inflow and outflow of energy. I can increase my stock of patience by increasing the amount of energy I stockpile for focus. However, I can also increase it by focusing on less things — saying “no” to more. I continued questions I asked myself yesterday and this time asked myself: what might I limit in my life? I came up with obvious answers like calories or expenditures. But as I persisted through the thinking I came up with other ideas that if applied, I might see an increase in stock of energy. So for you, some questions:What is one thing I do in a day that require me to maintain focus? What allows me to have that energy? What allows me to maintain the focus?What might I limit?

Continuing the train of thoughts on systems, stocks. In a system, a stocks is the result of inputs and outputs of a thing — stocks tell you what is present now. I’ll give you a classic example — a bathtub. The stock of water in the bathtub is a result of the inflow of water from the faucet and the outflow of water down the drain. If water leaves the bathtub faster than water flows into the bathtub, the stock will fall. The converse is also true. Additionally, the amount of flow in either direction can change based on how much you open or close the faucet/drain. Let’s consider stocks from the perspective of patience. Let’s say a stock of patience is a result of the inflow of unfocused energy and the outflow of focused energy. The amount of energy I allow in may be driven by my interest or my expectation of short/long run utility. The amount of energy I allow out may be driven by my perception of gains in the moment. More simply: perhaps my stock of patience is as great as my interest. I spent 10 minutes thinking about stocks, and I’m glad I did. I enjoyed thinking about what fuels my interests and what allows my interest to persist. I also got a lot of value identifying the stocks in my life. I’ll keep my learnings to myself here. For you, if you want to try this out, stop and ask yourself the question: What is one thing I do in a day that require me to maintain focus? What allows me to have that energy? And what allows me to maintain the focus?

Systems have obvious and non-obvious components. Take a family — a family system consists of a head and perhaps offspring. But what else? A family pet would be a component. A house, a car, a couch, you could name many different components of what might make a family. But what else?The components of the system are not as important as the relationship between each component. The relationship will help determine how the system operates. For example — let’s say one child in the family goes off to summer camp and will not be staying in the house. Does the family system still exist? Yes. The child’s location has changed but the relationship between other members of the family and the child has not. Therefore, the system can still operate. Now let’s say a tragedy strikes the family and a parent dies. Does the system persist? I believe yes because the relationship between the parent and the other members may not materially change. In fact, the surviving family members may want to hold the departed closer to them hanging on to their memory. Thinking about systems this way, I wonder how many systems we exist in? And I wonder how well we know the quality of our relationship between us and the other components of those systems? It’s never the trees, and it’s not quite the forest, it’s about the relationships of each item that make the forest.

“I have yet to see any problem, however complicated, which when looked at in the right way, did not become still more complicated.” - Poul Anderson from “The Ghost In the Machine”When you look at a flower at a distance, you see a flower. Magnify the flower and you’ll notice the pedals. Magnify more and you’ll see the hairs on the stems. Magnify even more you may see cells. Keeping going and you’ll see atoms. With each level of magnification nature reveals that much more complexity. And yet we yearn for an aphoristic view of the world.

I’m reading Donella H. Meadows’ “Thinking in Systems: A Primer.” I want to be a better systems thinker. On page 5, I came across this little bit of text.Systems happen all at once. They are connected not just in one direction, but in many directions simultaneously. To discuss them properly, it is necessary somehow to use a language that shares some of the same properties as the phenomena under discussion.In music notation, a system is a group of two or more staves that are joined together by a vertical bar, or brace. Look up “piano music” on google, and you’ll see systems everywhere. The function of a system is to represent what multiple things are doing at the same time. A musician must make sense of a system in order to bring a piece of music to life. Life, or nature, happen everywhere all at once. Nature is a system. Nature has a language — perhaps that language is actual human language, perhaps it’s music, maybe it’s a bark, maybe it is trees changing colors, or tides rising… everything in some way is interconnected with everything else all at once. The gift of learning music is that you learn to see and hear the system underneath all of the noise that is life. The vibrations.

Elaine Schwartz manages and writes for econlife, a favorite blog of mine for every day person economic news. The other day, she wrote about “Taylornomics”, or the economics influenced by Taylor Swift.Taylor’s “Eras” tour generated billions of dollars worldwide. Elaine asks, what do those numbers really mean.Moving from big totals to individuals, we can see that the money came from each Swifty spending approximately $1,279 on purchases that ranged from tickets, merchandise, food, and drinks, to transportation, hotel rooms, and restaurant meals.Assuming Miami is typical, restaurants in the 53 cities where Taylor Swift performed 149 concerts, would have seen almost every category increase. In Miami, total restaurant transactions rose by 9.1% while patrons spent approximately 2.6% more. Rather than hard liquor, wine sales soared an extra 12%. However, the big surge, at 27.2%, came from omelettes.In economics, the Eras Tour is a form of externality — a positive or negative impact of a decision/action on unrelated parties, a shockwave or a ripple. And apparently, one of the greatest uninvolved beneficiaries of Taylor Swift is the omelette — big egg ;-) In some way, we are an externality on the world around us. As we move through the world, we disrupt sound molecules and photos and thus impact uninvolved third party observers — others. The impact of our movement, we hope, is positive. In a sense, you are your own Taylor Swift to those of us privileged enough to experience you.

I love beautiful lyrics. When I coach singers, I get the most joy digging into the lyric of a song to understand the character’s world. No different than analyzing a story. Mirel Wagner’s “No Death” paints a vivid picture of a person dealing with death. Mirel’s words paint a picture of a person potentially dealing with the loss of a loved one, and the loss of pride that comes from losing someone. I never considered “pride” an emotion associated with death. As I think about people in my life and how I might respond to their death, I speculate I may feel my pride hurt. Perhaps that’s where my sadness may stem from? I may morn the loss of that person no longer in my life. That I have lost. That I should expect that person in my life forever. Perhaps that’s why writings of Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius all have a central theme of accepting death as a natural part of life. I’m not a morbid person, and I hope this post doesn’t leave you down. Rather, I hope this post piques your interest in Mirel Wagner, check out Mirel’s song below, and challenges you to appreciate every moment you have on this earth with people that much more. HT to Brian for the song recommendation.

At some point in your life, I hope you’ll have the experience of looking back at your work from 10 years ago. Yesterday I reviewed my work from Carnival Cruise Lines, nearly 10 years ago now. I see ideas and products and ways of leading that shaped me into the leader I am now; some things I wish I maintained. I also saw things that I would have done differently. On the whole, the experience touched me. How far have I come? How much did I forget or lose? And now that I see what I forgot/lost, how might I bring back the best? What am I still doing today that I did then? For all of what I am now, I am thankful for what I was.I enhanced the trip down memory lane with “Waga kado ni”, from Chiyomi Yamada & baobab’s new album” “Songs of my land”.

The construction of music fascinates me — still. Making music is this beautiful melange of ideation, critique, trial-and-error, intuition, knowledge, technical skill, craft, and luck. The skills required to construct music are the exact skills you want on a team. I am still thankful that I spent a majority of my career in professional music — most of my lifespan. Among many things, I learned the most from being a musician. It, in some way, is who I am.I got inspired to write this post after watching the behind scenes video of Yasmin Williams new album.